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Missing
the Austin ditch in which he’d slept most nights for the last two
years, Mike Wille curled up on the front lawn of the large house his
mother had just left him via her suicide note. Her death meant that Mike
– known to fans of his street music and his homelessness blog, The Ground Score,
as Mad Mike the Hippy Bum – would soon be a millionaire. Mad Mike
worried that, given his love of drink and drugs, he could not survive
such a lifestyle shift.
At birth, Mike’s left leg was shorter than his right by an inch, with no defined calf muscle and an under-formed foot sans big toe. When I visited his mother’s former home near New Orleans
recently, he showed me a box of family papers he’d unearthed regarding
the lengthening of his leg by the famous doctor Gavriil Ilizarov, who invented the procedure.
Still, the bum leg helped Mike nurture a negative outlook that, once
he became teenager, fractured his relationship with his already volatile
parents. “My mother was a fairly erratic person. Sometimes extremely
benevolent and generous, other times scathingly cruel,” Mike told me.
“When I was in the seventh grade, she tried to kill herself in front of
me because I got a D in history and I said I didn’t care. Later we found
her passed out in the garage with the car running and my dad freaked
out, showing more emotion than I’d ever seen out of him.
“Things came to a head when I was 17 and had a fist fight with my
dad, causing him to have me arrested. This was my first time in jail,”
says Wille, who immediately moved out of his house. Mike has more
recently written exquisitely about subsequent trips to jail (most for
public intoxication) at The Ground Score:
Immediately upon entering, one of the prisoners, a skinny guy about
my age, walked up to me, looked me in the eyes, extended his hand, and
in a welcoming voice said, “Hi. My name is “John.” Now I knew I was in
luck. Not only had I stumbled upon a harmonious pod, but also one which
contained at least one smart inmate. If you ever go to jail, I recommend
doing just what he did, and greet any unfamiliar inmate coming into
your living space in exactly this way (almost any). You can learn a lot
from a guy by presenting him with the option of civility.
I gave this gentlemen amongst the despondent a firm handshake and
said, “Hey man. I’m Mike.” Over the next two nights I ate, slept,
watched TV, read a book about Marlon Brando, and talked to John. A
decent conversation is hard to find in jail, and I could tell he hadn’t
had one in a while. As for me, it had probably been even longer. In this
town, the only class of people less worthy of respect than prisoners,
are the homeless.
Thanks to his blog, Mike received fan mail from Scotland, New Zealand, Latvia and the Ukraine. To a homeless bum, this meant everything.
Wille, now 36, lived rough on the streets of Austin. Photograph: Jonathan Traviesa
Mike’s deceased mother’s house, a nicely appointed junior McMansion
45 minutes east of New Orleans, represents the first roof over Mike’s
head in four years. Mad Mike spent the last 15 years blowing back and
forth from Texas to his home state of Louisiana, surfing both couches and park benches.
Mad Mike: ‘Facebook and my blog were forums where I wasn’t judged by my financial situation.’ Photograph: Jonathan Traviesa
Mad Mike still has not told the thousands of readers who keep up with
The Ground Score that he is now a multi-millionaire; he fears they will
judge him differently.
“People talk so much about how Facebook is garbage, and just some
cheeseball thing you shouldn’t take seriously, but … Facebook and my
blog were forums where I wasn’t judged by my financial situation,” says
Mike. “In Austin, people were cold to me, people didn’t look me in the
eye. Women didn’t look me in the eye for years. Police would put me in
jail every chance they’d get. The internet was the perfect escape.”
His first computer was quickly stolen, along with his guitar during
one of his blackouts on Austin’s world-famous 6th Street. He managed to
continue writing within the two hours allotted by the public library’s
computers. “I’d post something in one hour, then go back later in day to
see how it was received. When I wanted to get more done in a day, I’d
write it all out in longhand first.”
It is tough to corroborate the stories of a homeless loner. But I’ve
shared just a few degrees of separation from Mike in real life for
enough years to believe his Ground Scoretales.“In
real life, I was a heavy drinker who rubbed people the wrong way,” said
Mike. “But I always thought that if everyone could understand what I
was thinking they might understand me and like me better. So
hitting it big on the internet validated my feelings on that.” Fans out
of nowhere also helped him live: “I’m obviously some kind of big shot
artist to these guys – but then I’d look away from the screen and
remember that I’m a pariah. It helped me to survive under those
conditions. I made light of it in my writing,” he says, “but life in the
ditch was fucking rough.”
Mike finally went against his own rule and asked his internet
followers if anyone had an extra laptop he could have. His next two
computers and a smartphone came from readers. “It was an amazing thing,
the moment I realized I would always have a computer, just so long as I
kept writing …”
A university press even reached out and offered Mike a one-book
contract – which I advised him not to take because I thought his writing
could touch more people than a university press could reach. Having
published a couple books with universities myself, I knew that route
wouldn’t lift him out of the ditch. “Hold out,” I advised him. “You
could make real money with your writing.”
Soon though, money wouldn’t be a problem for Mad Mike.
Mike replaced his mom’s furniture with thousands of dollars worth of brand new musical equipment. Photograph: Jonathan Traviesa
“Three out of five of our siblings have committed suicide. Mike’s
mother is the third,” says Danny Branighan, the arbiter of his sister’s
will, though they’d been estranged since 2001. Danny has a turbulent
relationship with his brother as well, and another sister who was so
horrified to read Mike’s blog that she cut him off, and demanded he
never write about her in even the most veiled of ways.
Danny’s most recently deceased sister had argued with her boyfriend,
told him to leave the house, then went to sleep in the garage with the
car running. “She had a will drawn up before that, but the one that she
wrote that day was considered more valid, and it held up in Louisiana
district court,” says Danny, who ever since has been giving Mad Mike
rides and amateur legal advice. He confirms Mike will inherit $1.8m in
investment money, plus his mother’s big house. “I’d have been upset if
it all hadn’t gone to Mike,” he claims.
After the loss of his mother, Mike wasn’t heard from for weeks. When he resurfaced a month later,he
told me that he was “very happy about the money, but I don’t like the
way I got it. I wish she would have given me 10% of it and had a deeper
relationship with me.”
Though still smoking weed and dabbling in other drugs – and worst of
all, ripping the filters off his Pall Mall cigarettes – Mike is
attempting to quit drinking. “I simply can’t afford to fuck this up, and
if I’m drinking, I certainly would. Either I would waste all the money
or kill myself,” he believes, pointing to his last drinking binge this
past New Year’s Eve, when Danny ended up driving alcohol poisoned Mike
to Tulane Hospital. “Abject poverty had kept my drinking reasonably
contained,” says Mike, “but with a full bank account I tend to drink
until I get sick.”
Instead, he’s indulging in music. Mad Mike immediately moved his
mom’s sofa, love seat and ottoman out of the living room and replaced it
with thousands of dollars worth of brand new, gorgeous musical
equipment: a cherry wood Les Paul guitar and a Fender Deluxe Reverb amp;
a giant, black Korg keyboard and a huge multi-channel Roland amp; a
sleek, black Fender Jazz Bass; several microphones and the six-piece
drum kit. As we sit around jamming, he tells me: “This morning off of
eBay I ordered a $2,500 Martin acoustic guitar, a standup bass, a
Deering maple Banjo, and an Irish Bouzouki Mandola.” I had to look that
last one up.
He promises that now, after he buys his first car as an adult, and
then helps Danny’s family pay off tens of thousands worth of debt, Mike
will keep the rest of the money invested. “This looks like rash
consumerism,” he recognizes, moving into the kitchen, which now serves
as his recording studio’s control room. “But I am just acquiring the
specific tools for my needs. I intend to spend the rest of my life
writing, producing artwork, and recording music. I suppose I might even
consider starting a family now that I have the resources to take care of
one.”
Wanting me to try the weed he stashed out in the guesthouse, we must
first cross his vast, verdant yard. The guesthouse is tiny but, with a
bathroom, bed and TV, inheriting it alone would have wildly changed
Mike’s life. Now, it is just another place Mike keeps weed.
I ask him if he’s worried people will treat him differently. “Oh yes,
it happened immediately,” he says. “Now people invite me into their
parlors, their guestrooms, they offer to let me sleep on their couch.
Though this also has to do with the fact that I’m not drinking…”
Despite that he’s currently embroiled in something even more
interesting than finding drugs on the ground, Mike hasn’t posted on The
Ground Scoresince he moved in here. He did tell his followers
that he’d inherited a nice house and is no longer homeless. But he fears
the word “millionaire,” will alienate his fans. “They like an
underdog,” he understands. “So I’m kind of nervous as to how they will
react.”
He admits that the house is too distracting for blogging. “But more
importantly, my family is now all really paying attention to my posts,”
he says, blowing smoke in the breeze’s face. “And what I have to write
about lately is stuff that would ... not offend them
necessarily, but … they’re from a different lifestyle than me. To be
honest I haven’t been writing because I finally care what someone
thinks.”
The original source of this post is http://www.theguardian.com/society/2015/mar/24/mad-mike-homeless-blogger-millionaire
I think this is an amazing story it is very sad but has a kind of ok ending.Things can turn out alright in the end of a very stormy life.
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Someone said that this days men seem to want to be
women and women want to be men.This statement sounds so funny.The reason
for this statement is because apparently men like doing feminine things
and women like doing masculine things.I do not think the statement that
men want to be women and women want to be men quiet fits because that
may not be the case.Some men love wearing women's clothes and makeup and
like behaving like women,those are called cross dresser.For some of them
it is just a preference.Some men love make up and nail polish mostly
clear nail polish.Which just mean this men like taking extra care of
themselves and also love fashion.Men do get manicures and pedicures
which does not mean they want to be women but just means they like to be
pampered too.
There are men who like cooking and even turn that into a
career and they are quiet good at it.This does not mean they want to be
women.They are just doing something that they are passionate about.Some
men just like cleaning the house taking care of kids,some pick careers
that are labelled as feminine like
receptionists,secretarial,nursing,hairdressing, nanny and baby sitting
.Which does not mean they want to be women they are just picking a
job.
Some women work as truckdrivers,CEOs,managers,electricians,engineers, construction workers.Since
those are labelled as masculine jobs it should not mean women picking
these jobs want to be men.They are just going for what they are passionate about.The amazing thing is that men
seem to be so good at the so called feminine jobs.And women seem to be
so good at the so called masculine jobs.And that is a good thing.Do you feel the same way as i do?
Some people get into marriage for so many reasons.Some
get into marriage for the wrong reasons and some get into marriage for
the right reasons.The reasons that lead you to marriage do determine
your happiness.If you get into marriage for the right reasons your
chance for happiness will be very high.If you get into marriage for the
wrong reasons your chances for happiness will be so low.Getting into
marriage just because you are expecting a child by mistake is one of the
most common of all.It is wrong to get married only because of the baby
you are expecting.
Two wrongs can not make a right in such
situations.Because it is wrong for two people to marry where there is no
love.This leads to loneliness and infidelity.People are forced to marry
by their parents only because the are expecting a child.Those parents
do not realize what they are setting up for their children.This leads to
an empty miserable marriage.Another wrong reason is getting married for
financial support.This reason is maybe the most common of them
all.Another wrong reason for getting married is because the society
dictates it.The society dictates that one should be married and one
should be married by a certain age.Some people even marry for
prestige.
They may marry someone just because of their race.Maybe their
race is considered to be superior.For others maybe the person is famous
or comes from a famous family.Because such things are so superficial
they make your reasons for marrying so wrong.If you marry for all
the wrong reasons almost if not everything in your marriage will be
wrong and a disaster.What are your views on the wrong reasons for getting marriedand have i left anything out?
photos from pixabay.com
Marriage, also called matrimony or wedlock, is a socially or ritually recognized union or legal contract between spouses that establishes rights and obligations between them, between them and their children, and between them and their in-laws. Marriage can be recognized by a state, an organization, a religious authority, a tribal group, a local community or peers. It is often viewed as a contract.
The defination of what marriage is is from wikipedia.org
The movie 50 shades of grey has been banned in kenya
just like the movie Wolf Of Wall Street which was banned last year.
Kenyan movie regulator cites prolonged and explicit scenes.That is their
reason for banning the film 50 Shades Of Grey in Kenya.And just like
Wolf Of Wall Streetanyone caught distributing or owning the movie 50
Shades Of Grey will be charged in a Court of law.The movie regulators
know that when they ban a film that is when it gets the most
downloads.People get even more curious and want to know what the movie
is about.They should have just rated the movie as adults only.Just like
Wolf Of Wall Street many kenyans want to see what they are being
stopped to see and their is no stopping them.
Fifty Shades of Greyis a 2011 erotic romance novel by British author E. L. James. It is the first installment in the Fifty Shades
trilogy that traces the deepening relationship between a college
graduate, Anastasia Steele, and a young business magnate, Christian
Grey. It is notable for its explicitly erotic scenes featuring elements
of sexual practices involving bondage/discipline, dominance/submission, and sadism/masochism (BDSM). Originally self-published as an ebook and a print-on-demand, publishing rights were acquired by Vintage Books in March 2012. The second and third volumes, Fifty Shades Darker and Fifty Shades Freed, were published in 2012. Fifty Shades of Grey has topped best-seller lists around the world, including those of the United Kingdom and the United States. The series has sold over 100 million copies worldwide and been translated into 52 languages,and set a record in the United Kingdom as the fastest-selling paperback of all time.[8] Critical reception of the book, however, has tended toward the negative, with the quality of its prose generally seen as poor. Universal Pictures and Focus Features produced afilm adaptation, which was released on 13 February 2015 and also received generally unfavorable reviews.
The description of the movie 5O Shades Of Grey is from the all amazing wikipidea.org This movie is so far the best selling this year worldwide
On Sunday night at the Grammies red-carpet,
actress/musician Zendaya had a waist-length faux locs hair style. It was
a very different look for Zendaya.Since she had a pixie cut earlier
that week she decided to rock a natural hair style.Zendaya is always
gorgeous and i love her but i do not quiet like this look on her. This
look sparked a war on Twitter.During E!’s Fashion Police
Oscars edition show, host Giuliana
Rancic commented on Zendaya’s red-
carpet hair style, saying that her
dreadlocks made Zendaya look like she
smelled of “patchouli oil and weed.
https://twitter.com/giulianarancic
https://twitter.com/zendaya
People on Twitter
erupted in anger, calling Rancic's joke
racist, xenophobic, distasteful, and
ignorant (and citing Giuliana's previous
praise of Kylie Jenner for rocking dreadlocks as hypocrisy ).Ok maybe
Giuliana was favouring Kylie Jenner or maybe liked that look more on her
but she was not racist.On fashion Police they like same looks on one
person and dislike it on another person.It is true people may have the
same look but one may look good and the other may not look that
good.
Dreadlocks are a natural look and have nothing to do with
race.Dreadlocks are a cultural look and some people look good with the
look and some do not.I would never do that hairdo be it with my own hair
or extentions because am not a huge fun of it.Ok i do like the look on
some people but not everyone can rock that style. Giuliana was just
stating her opinion on that look and since she did not like that look on
Zendaya and made fun of it.It was not racist.She just did not like the look on
Zendaya.I get that people jumped the gun and said Giuliana was ignorant
or racist. On Fashion Police they make fun of everyone based on their
fashion donts and praise everyone when they ace a look despite their
race.For those people who think dreadlocks are a black womans natural
look i am gladly going to correct you it is not.It is a cultural look
for Rastafarians.
Giuliana's joke was nowhere near racist.Sometimes
people get mistaken and this was not a racist moment.Giuliana did
apologies on Twitter and on E-entertainment but people still where
relactant to listen to her apology.If a white girl can rock a look
better than a black girl and you point that out on Fashion Police style
that doesnt make it racist in any way.People should take it easy on this
one, Guiliana is not racist.I am African i see how Guiliana's comment
was taken the way it was.But drealocks are not a natural African hair
look and most people associate that look with weed smoking because it is
a cultural look and people make fun of that look so many times like a
Guiliana did in that context.There is nothing racist with that.
You can
tell an ignorant or racist people by the way the relate and act with
people of other races and Guiliana is not one of those racist people.I
see the way she relates with her African-American colleagues at
E-entertainment.And she is always warm and loving with them.For Zendaya i
love her and see how she would interpret this as ignorant nor racist but that was not one of Zendaya's best
looks on the red-carpet and it is ok.All celebrities have their not so
great looks on the red-carpet and even others never ever get best looks
lol. What do you think about this incident was everything taken way out of context?