It all starts with the basics.A guy who knows who his first love is and respects and loves her is a perfect guy.You would ask who is everyones first love or who is this persons first love?This guys first love is his mum.I do not mean a mama's boy.I mean someone who has utmost respect and love for his mum.Everyone knows mama's boys are just so spoilt and want their lady to treat them the same way their mum treats them.Which is not the way to go in such a relationship.Nobody wants a grown up child.
2.The Way He Treats You In Public And When Its Just You Two
The perfect guy is someone who makes you feel like you are the luckiest woman alive by the way he treats you like a princess or a beautiful respectable flower in public and even when no one is looking.Because some people do put on a show for people but behind the scenes they are something else that is not good.
Someone who is faithful is one of a kind.Faithfulness is a big quality which went flying out the window with the stone age lol. Faithfulness and honesty go hand in hand and these are the best qualities you can find in a perfect guy.It is possible to find an honest and faithful guy they are somewhere out there lol. So the perfect guy should be someone who is honest and faithful.
4.Give Attention And Affection
The perfect guy is one who gives you just the right amount of attention and affection and it gets better and better with time.Too much affection and attention is suffocating and too little attention and affection will make one question how much one cares.The perfect guy will forever let you know you are centre of their world.
The perfect guy is someone who is kind to animals,strangers and everyone in general.Kindness goes along with respect.The perfect guy respects God,the law,everyone and also animals.You can tell ones true kindness by the way they treat people who serve them.When you are in a restaurant watch the way someone treats the people serving them that will tell you how kind they are or to people who are less fortunate than they are in whatever way.If someone is kind and respectful to others,he will be kind and respectful to you.
6.Independent
He should be independent emotionally and spiritually so as to be able to take care of himself and not rely on to take care of them emotionally and spiritually.And he should be able to let you be independent and nake your own decisions.He should be able to support you in what you to do.
7.Grooming
Grooming is great,a guy who is well groomed is very clean responsible and that is very attractive especially a guy who smells good can get your attention fast lol. I hope every girl loves a guy who smells good.
8.Financially Stable Or With Potential
The perfect guy should have financial stability or have potential which means he is working towards financial independence. But this does not mean your perfect guy should be your perfect guy because he is rich.And remember do not settle for diamonds and pearls for tears.
On a realistic note the definition of perfect is something without any fault and that does not apply to the human species lol. Perfect here is someone being complete in their own kind.Because being human has its downside and the biggest thing is no one walking of these earths surface is perfect.But there is some guy with these good qualities who is perfect for one special girl.Since beauty is in the eyes of the beholder i hope the beholder would not be blind to the obvious qualities.And just being blind because of love and fantasies.
Well people define the perfect guy to be prince charming with a six pack and a smile to die for.Sorry to burst that bubble because that mostly exists in movies and soap operas,which are not really part of reality.And some of the cutest guys may not be that cute inside.There are basis for a perfect guy for every one special girl.There sure is a perfect guy just for you but do keep these qualities in mind.You do not have to settle for less.Your Mr.Perfect may not be necessarily perfect because no human is but sure he is perfect just for you.Keep all this in mind and you will find him.
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