Why Does Everyone Need Validation?-Self Help

First i will try to describe what validation is in my own words.Validation is approval in someones eyes or being up to standard according to a certain person.When one is validated by someone it gives one happiness,self assurance and peace of mind.When one feels they do not ever or they hardly live up to someones validation.They are down,sad and its like they have a storm inside.Being validated is i guess just a part of human nature.Kids like to get the validation from their parents and at times parents need to get their children's validation.When children do not get their parents validation they self destruct and are very sad and angry.

Its amazing the amount of damage the lack of validation from a parent to a child can do to a child.But getting validation is everywhere.Friends want validation from their friends.Peers want approval from their peers.Students need validation from their teachers.Employees need validation from their employers.Husbands need validation from their wives and vice-versa.Even people who are dating need validation from each other.And the list goes on and on and on.Even celebrities need validation from their fun's that means there are no exceptions its just part of human nature.I think the most important thing is to do and be the best and love yourself that is the best validation you need.Because needing those other validations can be alot of work and even impossible and that can do alot of damage because of the emotional strain of trying to please others.

And you will be concentrating on the wrong things and you will not concentrate on building yourself and you will loose yourself in the process.But i think life will be easier without needing validation.Do you agree with me or what do you think about validation? will always keep myself in check because i do not want to loose myself while trying to stand for gender equality.It would not be of any benefit to me to be a rebel that gets lost in their course.I wont be submissive but i will keep in mind that we are equals so that we may exist in harmony.Hope you feel the same way too about gender equality.I look up to women like Beyonce,Tyra Banks and Alicia Keys, they are true definitions of women standing tall and amazingly strong in a mans world.They show how hard work and believing in yourself as a woman can make you achieve your dreams without limitations.So males are not better than females and females are not better than males we are equals.Its all mutual love and respect.Hope you agree with me males and females compliment each other none supplements the other.